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22Feb/120

Our Father is Not Custodial

I was speaking with some friends over a Skype conference last night. It was the last of 4 meetings some great men and I had over Robin’s book “The Healing Path.” I have many thoughts brewing from that extended conversation but for now I just want to mention a word. It was a word a wrote on my notes pages a couple weeks ago in a previous group chat appointment. The word is custodial. The word was mentioned in the context, I believe, of learning to receive the Father’s love and understand his affection for us as something greater and deeper than simply custodial.

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28Nov/11Off

Who Is Your Pastor?

In a previous series related to finances in the kingdom I wrapped up with a post called “Now, To Put It All On the Stove” which was my way of creating a kind of wrap up post. After I finished and posted it I realized it was an avalanche of challenges and insights that may have been hard to digest all at one time. So, I have decided to take each bullet point from that post and treat each one over the next many posts. I plan to remain casual in each of these treatments, as I don’t think each one is really that academic. I think this stuff if farmer logic for the most part.

The first bullet point read: “Taking care of your actual pastor is a real joy. Your pastor is someone who watches after your soul, little sheep, and cares about your health and life (this might be different from the person who teaches every Sunday and basically manages the affairs of the fellowship on a broad scale.) When you have a heart to thank them and honor them for their work in your life, then you are already tithing in your heart.”

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15Jul/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 6

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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1Jul/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 5

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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15Jun/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 4

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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1Jun/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 3

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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15May/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 2

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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1May/10Off

The Basics of Church Leadership, Podcast 1

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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20Mar/10Off

Podcast: Release to Pastor

Brian Fenimore and Ben Pasley work together every month to equip Church leadership in Woodland Park, CO. Here Ben teaches on the practicals of pastoring.

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19Mar/10Off

A Basic Overview of Church Leadership

Introduction

This document began as a topical letter addressed to the leaders of a local fellowship in the fall of 2008. I wrote it as a response to their request that we get all our thoughts on the table concerning what local Church leadership should look like, how it should function, and what these thoughts might imply to them as they were looking to upgrade their own leadership model. At that time their leadership model was, for all practical purposes, a very traditional protestant fellowship model which had at its apex a senior pastor, then a board of directors sometimes called elders, and a few folks doing other kinds of leadership works like children’s ministry or hospitality. There were two paid staff that included, of course, the senior pastor and the full time worship leader. Since that time many things have changed, and I believe they have been changes for the better.

This document might be read after the article at Churchthink I titled, “Receiving the Apostle” which was written earlier to the key elder at the same local fellowship.

Not everything I have submitted in what follows (the great majority of which is the original letter which forecast my sense of coming changes) was immediately agreed with or even followed precisely even up to this day. I say this with a sense of humor as I submit these thoughts to you for consideration because I smile when I realize that no man is smart enough to know how, when, and where everything “ought” to happen in any fellowship or gathering of the family of God. It takes us all to work this stuff out.