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22Feb/120

Our Father is Not Custodial

I was speaking with some friends over a Skype conference last night. It was the last of 4 meetings some great men and I had over Robin’s book “The Healing Path.” I have many thoughts brewing from that extended conversation but for now I just want to mention a word. It was a word a wrote on my notes pages a couple weeks ago in a previous group chat appointment. The word is custodial. The word was mentioned in the context, I believe, of learning to receive the Father’s love and understand his affection for us as something greater and deeper than simply custodial.

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28Nov/11Off

Who Is Your Pastor?

In a previous series related to finances in the kingdom I wrapped up with a post called “Now, To Put It All On the Stove” which was my way of creating a kind of wrap up post. After I finished and posted it I realized it was an avalanche of challenges and insights that may have been hard to digest all at one time. So, I have decided to take each bullet point from that post and treat each one over the next many posts. I plan to remain casual in each of these treatments, as I don’t think each one is really that academic. I think this stuff if farmer logic for the most part.

The first bullet point read: “Taking care of your actual pastor is a real joy. Your pastor is someone who watches after your soul, little sheep, and cares about your health and life (this might be different from the person who teaches every Sunday and basically manages the affairs of the fellowship on a broad scale.) When you have a heart to thank them and honor them for their work in your life, then you are already tithing in your heart.”

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25Oct/11Off

Now, to Put It On the Stove

I think it is a good idea, now, to take the ingredients from the previous post and put them together, pour in some chicken stock of common sense, and begin to bring it to simmer. These ideas of the tithe, offerings, honor, storehouse, and ministry career work all go together just like Carolyn’s beef stew, but you have to get them all together in the same pot over heat for a while for it all to taste right.

Some of my first thoughts on this particular stew, is that it is very filling and it is very nutritious. (For those of you who have some concern about this food metaphor, be sure that I will not drag it out much longer.) An understanding of how kingdom giving and receiving gives us energy for living, and how it answers so many basic needs in our understanding of God’s provision for all of us, is easily enjoyed if a person will choose to consume this as a basic revelation. I am going to downshift into super-practical thoughts that are so reduced to the daily basics of life that you won’t be able to miss the practical outcomes of understanding the sustaining values in what I have been teaching:

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18Oct/11Off

Tithes Vs. Offerings

First, a simple review: tithes are for people.

“He ordered the people living in Jerusalem to give the portion due the priests and Levites so they could devote themselves to the Law of the LORD. As soon as the order went out, the Israelites generously gave the firstfruits of their grain, new wine, oil and honey and all that the fields produced. They brought a great amount, a tithe of everything.” (2 Chr 31:4-20)

In our previous articles we went into this point in a bit more depth, but in summary, God required a tenth from Israel so that one of the tribes, the Levites, could be asked to serve in ministry works, temple service, worship leading, and all the things that showed the whole nation’s willingness to honor God and follow him. Without a tithe they would have been left to figure out how to buy and sell, engage in commerce in some form, sell lands, etc. in order to make a living, but God new it was a losing proposal to be set apart to do the work of the ministry full time and to not have a special financial provision available for them. This provision is referred to as the tithe in the Old Testament...

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12Oct/11Off

What is the STOREHOUSE?

You have heard it said: “The tithe belongs in the storehouse.” Ok, so where is that from? It is from Malachi 3:10: “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this," says the LORD Almighty, "and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.” Usually, we hear that sermon once or twice a year when offerings are low at our fellowship and the leadership, or key leader, feels it necessary to remind everyone to put the money in the bank on behalf of building and staff needs. We don’t want to be cynical, but this predictable sermon has become fodder for cynicism over time and the hardest part is that we are not sure why it makes us feel the way we do. It makes us feel manipulated, but why? It makes the presenter of the argument feel as those he is selling a used car, but why? If the storehouse is equivalent to the bank account of each local fellowship, then why does this sermon make our conscience wrinkle?

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21Sep/11Off

Finances: A Hundred Ways to Do It Right

(Reposted on Sep 21, 2011 to make sure new subscribers received it!)

Dear friends, I have had on my heart for quite a while to write to you my thoughts on the economy of the kingdom of God. I have quite a number of thoughts, actually, and like a homeless beaver staring at a new forest I new I had to get started but I didn’t know where to begin. To resolve that freezing tension I have decided to throw my usual obsession with being linear out the window. Instead, I will walk around the room of my mind, sitting in different chairs, and looking out of different windows and simply tell you what I see, and, oh yeah, the room is called finances for the work of the kingdom.

This morning I am thinking of how there are no rules for how God will make provision for his people, and to spend much time building exacting formulas seems wasteful. In seasons and times and places there have been provisions of manna from the sky, coins from the fish mouth, miracles for widows from small jars, miracles in wine in large jars, and offerings placed at the apostles feet. Men have farmed, served, made, sold and traded for a living for as far as history has reached, and God has seen fit to bring provision through that labor as well. There a principles and lessons inside of each one, I am sure, but the greatest lesson for me might be that God can provide through anything and so we must choose not become to prejudiced, too opinionated, too entrenched in looking up at only one rain cloud of provision or we may find ourselves swimming in resources but unable to receive it because our judgements have blinded us to the rising tide of God’s favor which simply came from an unexpected direction. Lesson summary: expect God’s favor from every direction and learn how to say thank you in several languages.

With this in mind I challenge you a few things. First, write down on a single page the sources of financial and life provision--which might include housing, food, transportation, etc.--that has come to you in the last year and note the source of that provision. Decide how to offer some thanks to God for each one since he saw fit to take care of you during this season using these things. He, after all, gets all the credit for the flow of resources, not your skill, not luck, not the markets, not the government, and not your employer. See how in the passage from 2 Corinthians 9 that God gets the credit for the actual supply: “Now he who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God.” For us to learn that God’s intention is to make us rich (“you will be made rich in every way”) sure takes the burden off of us to try and create our resources and hold on to them, instead we can take joy in the work of our hands as the writer of Ecclesiastes underlines in chapter 2. After overviewing how all the results of hard work were only temporarily held in the hands of the worker he concludes, “A man can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in his work. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment? To the man who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God.” Give elaborate and specific thanks to God whose desire is not only provide for you and give you joy in your labor, but whose desire is to make your rich so that you can be generous in every occasion.

Second, I would challenge you take special note of where you have not received any provision in this last season. If you are in ministry work, did you receive no hourly wage for anything? If you are in business, did you receive no offerings or gifts for your family? If you are a business for missions person have you received the tithes and offerings on your principle? Did you only receive weekly compensation, but no residual income from investments? Do you never invest in fear of lacking in the present? If you are retired, did you receive only your pension, and not anything from present labor? These questions are not designed to create any sense of judgement around you, but only to inspire an exercise: repent for judging any avenue of God’s provision by saying aloud, “Father, forgive me if I have held any prejudice in my heart against this avenue of your provision. If you have a blessing in store for me from this area then I choose to have open hands to receive it and I will remember to thank you when I receive it since it has not been my nature to see it coming from that direction.” Simple, wasn’t it? I am not implying that you need to change jobs, change your weekly schedule, or modify anything. I simply asked you to repent from prejudice so that IF the Lord were to ask you to apply yourself, or receive a certain kind of blessing, you would not be blind and unable to enjoy it.

I am fond of saying, “There are always a hundred ways to do something the right way.” I find this attitude inspires my sons instead of chaining them to the ground with my expectations. I hope this encouragement has unchained you a bit from the expectations in your own heart of how God will supply your needs. Together we can hope that his obsession with supplying us will eventually overwhelm every foolish prejudice and principle we cling to while the flood of provision continues to rise all around.

15Jul/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 6

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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1Jul/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 5

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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15Jun/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 4

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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1Jun/10Off

The Basics in Church Leadership, Podcast 3

Ben Pasley shares an article with us entitled "The Basics in Church Leadership" over a series of 6 podcasts. It is a dive into the fundamentals of understanding the family model of growing healthy Church based on simple insights from the Bible. Enjoy. www.churchthink.com

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